Gemstone Earrings: Natural Color for Every Ensemble

Brighten Your Look with Vibrant Stones

I love how a pair of gemstone earrings can instantly brighten an outfit. As a former fashion buyer and designer, I’ll share friendly, simple tips to pick natural-color stones and vibrant gems—studs, drops, hoops and birthstone choices—that suit your skin tone, metal, color palette, occasion and budget. You’ll learn how to match earrings to your wardrobe, highlight your personality, mix metals, and care for gemstones so they stay beautiful.

Introduction: Why Gemstone Earrings Matter

Gemstone earrings are earrings that feature real or lab grown stones like sapphires, emeralds, amethysts, and many others, and they bring natural color and life right next to your face where people notice it most. When I wear gemstone earrings, I feel like I am adding a little piece of the earth’s beauty to my outfit, because every stone forms over many years deep in the ground. Unlike painted metal or plastic, gemstones catch the light in rich and layered ways, so even a tiny stud can add sparkle and depth to a simple T shirt or a plain black dress. Their colors come from the minerals inside the stone, not from a coating, which is why they look more vibrant and alive. This natural color can soften a strict work look, brighten a casual outfit, or make an evening dress feel more special without much effort at all.
This guide is for women who want to look put together without spending hours in front of the mirror or buying a whole new wardrobe every season. Maybe you are busy with work, family, church, and daily life, and you just want one little trick that makes you feel more polished. Gemstone earrings can do that, because they are small, easy to wear, and can change the whole mood of an outfit in seconds. I am writing for you if you like feminine style but also want practical advice that fits a real budget and a normal schedule. Whether you are just starting to build a jewelry collection or you already own a few pieces and want to use them better, this article will give you clear steps you can follow right away.
In this article, I walk you through a simple path so you never feel lost or overwhelmed while shopping for gemstone earrings. First, I share a bit of background and meaning so you understand the stories behind common stones and why people love them. Next, I show you how to choose colors and shapes that flatter your skin tone and your clothes, and then I explain basic care so your earrings stay beautiful for years. After that, we talk about buying smart, including ethical sourcing and how to spend wisely, and then we finish with styling ideas for daily life and special occasions. By the end, you will know how to pick the right pair, how to treat it well, and how to use it to brighten any outfit in a way that feels true to your personality.

Gemstone History, Meaning & Origins

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People have worn gemstones as earrings, necklaces, and rings for thousands of years, long before modern fashion existed, because stones were seen as both beautiful and meaningful. In ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome, women and men used gemstones to show status, honor their gods, and mark important events, and many royal crowns were loaded with bright stones. In the Bible, the breastplate of the high priest was set with twelve different gems, each one symbolizing a tribe of Israel, which shows how deeply people have tied stones to identity and faith. Over time, earrings became a simple way for everyday people to enjoy the same sense of color and beauty that once belonged mostly to nobles and rulers. When I put on gemstone earrings today, I feel a small connection to that long line of women before me who used jewelry to mark special moments and express who they were.
Many gemstones have gathered strong meanings over time, and even if you do not fully believe in them, these stories can help you choose stones that match your personality. Amethyst, with its calm purple color, is often linked to peace, clear thinking, and self control, which makes it a lovely choice when you want a steady, gentle presence. Emerald is tied to renewal, growth, and new life, and its deep green can remind us of spring and fresh starts, so it works well for times of change. Turquoise is often seen as a stone of protection and safe travel, and for many Native American cultures it has deep spiritual value. When you pick a stone with a meaning you like, the earrings feel more personal, as if you are wearing a small reminder of the virtues you want to grow in your life.
Cultural meanings around gemstones shift as they move from one place and time to another, and modern fashion loves to borrow these old stories and use them in new ways. For example, rubies were once reserved for royalty, but today a simple pair of ruby studs can just be a fun pop of red for date night. In one culture, a stone might be a symbol of mourning, while in another it stands for love and joy, and global fashion often mixes these ideas without even noticing. Designers and stylists use these meanings to add depth to their work, so a blue sapphire earring might be sold as a symbol of loyalty or as a “something blue” for brides. When you know a little bit of this background, you can decide which stories you want to carry with you and which ones you simply enjoy for their color and sparkle.
Gemstones come from mines all over the world, from deep African deposits to high mountain veins in South America and Asia, and each region has its own history with stone cutting and trade. For many small towns, gem mining became the main source of income, bringing jobs and roads and tools, but it also made those places dependent on a single resource. Over centuries, families passed down mining and cutting skills, and whole local economies grew around certain stones, such as sapphires in Sri Lanka or opals in Ethiopia. When you buy a pair of gemstone earrings, you are often touching the work of miners, cutters, and polishers from far away, each person adding a step to the journey from the earth to your jewelry box. Understanding where your stones come from helps you see them as more than pretty objects and gives you a reason to care about how those people are treated.
Mining and stone cutting do not just affect workers; they also shape the land, water, and long term health of communities, which is why gem origins matter. Poorly managed mines can damage soil, pollute rivers, and leave towns broken when the resources run out, while responsible operations try to restore the land and support families even after the mine closes. Some areas have seen conflict or child labor linked to gemstone trade, and that dark side is something I think we should not ignore as buyers. When we choose gemstones from ethical sources, we help support safer working conditions, fair pay, and better care for God’s creation. In the next sections, I will show you how to ask good questions so your earrings can be both beautiful and a quiet blessing to the people and places they came from.

Color Theory: Match Stones to Skin Tone & Wardrobe

One simple way to choose gemstone colors that flatter you is to think about your skin undertone and then pair it with stones in the same temperature. If your skin has warm undertones, with more golden or peach tones and veins that look greenish, stones like citrine, garnet, warm topaz, and golden amber will usually look rich and glowing on you. If your skin has cool undertones, with pink or bluish hints and veins that look more blue, cool stones like sapphire, amethyst, aquamarine, and blue topaz often make your skin look fresh and bright. Some people have neutral undertones and can wear a wider range, but even then, noticing which colors make your face look alive and which make it look dull will guide you. Once you know your undertone, you can skip half the display case and focus on colors that are more likely to work for you.
Neutral stones are the quiet heroes of a jewelry collection, because they blend easily with almost any outfit and are very forgiving. Moonstone, with its soft white glow and flashes of blue, feels gentle and romantic and goes well with light and dark clothes without clashing. Clear quartz and white topaz can look almost like diamonds, catching light without adding strong color, so they pair nicely with prints, bright lipsticks, or colorful scarves. Soft gray gemstones, like some labradorite or smoky quartz, are also surprisingly easy to wear and look chic with both casual and dressy looks. When you own one or two pairs of neutral gemstone earrings, you always have a safe choice for mornings when you do not have time to think too hard about matching.
Before you buy gemstone earrings, it helps to see how they look in natural daylight, because store lighting can be very flattering but also very misleading. I like to hold the earrings up near my face and stand by a window or even step just outside if the shop allows it, so I can see how the color plays with my skin and eye color. Bright indoor lights can make dull stones look full of life, while harsh white lights can wash out gentle pastels that would look soft and lovely in normal daylight. If you shop online, try to look for photos of the earrings on an actual person and check if the seller shows the piece in different lighting conditions. Taking this small extra step helps you avoid buying earrings that look amazing in the box but somehow disappear when you put them on at home.
Once you know which colors flatter you, the next choice is whether you want your earrings to match your outfit or stand in contrast, and both can work if you use them on purpose. Matching means choosing a stone that is close to the color of your clothes, which creates a soft and elegant look, like blue sapphire studs with a navy dress or green peridot with an olive blouse. Contrast means picking a stone that stands out from what you are wearing, such as red garnet with a cream sweater or bright turquoise with a white summer dress, which draws more attention to your face. If your outfit already has many colors or a busy print, I usually choose a stone that echoes one color from the pattern for balance. If your clothes are simple and plain, that is when a bold contrasting stone can really shine and become the star of your look.

Picking Gemstones by Outfit & Occasion

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For daytime and casual wear, small gemstone studs or tiny hoops with soft colors are my favorite, because they look easy and relaxed while still adding a bit of polish. Think of pale pink morganite, light blue topaz, or soft green peridot in a simple setting that does not pull on your earlobe. These pairs are perfect for grocery runs, coffee with a friend, or a walk in the park, and they will not snag on your T shirt or scarf. If you like a sporty or very simple style, a single pair of tiny gemstone studs can become your daily uniform, quietly brightening your face even when you are just in jeans and sneakers. The goal during the day is comfort, low fuss, and a touch of color, not drama.
For work and more professional settings, I prefer earrings that are modest in size, not swinging too low or sparkling too loudly, especially in conservative offices. Simple gemstone studs, small huggie hoops with a thin row of stones, or short dangles that stop just below the earlobe usually feel polished without being distracting. Neutral or muted tones, such as navy sapphires, smoky quartz, soft gray moonstone, or classic pearls mixed with small gems, look grown up and serious. If your job allows some creativity, you can use slightly richer colors like deep green emerald or wine red garnet, but keep the shapes clean and the metal finish simple. When your earrings are tasteful and controlled, they support your presence instead of pulling focus away from your words and work.
For evening events, dinners, and date nights, you can be more playful and bold with your gemstone earrings, since low light and dressier clothes can handle extra sparkle. This is the time for larger stones, deeper colors, or more eye catching shapes like chandelier drops or long linear earrings. Rich shades like ruby red, royal blue sapphire, dark amethyst, or dramatic black onyx can look stunning with a simple black dress or a sleek jumpsuit. A bit of shimmer from diamond accents, white topaz, or a halo of tiny stones around a center gem can also catch candlelight in a very flattering way. I like to choose one main feature, either strong color or strong sparkle, so the look stays elegant instead of too busy.
For weddings, formal events, and church ceremonies, gemstone earrings can feel almost like a crown, adding grace and dignity to your look without being over the top. Bridal styles often lean toward classic stones like sapphires, diamonds, pearls, or aquamarine, and many brides like to match their earrings to a pendant or bracelet for a coordinated set. If you are the bride, think about how your earrings will look in photos from the side when you are turned toward your husband or the pastor, since drops can frame your face beautifully. If you are a guest, you can echo the wedding colors with softer versions of the same shade so you look festive but do not compete with the bride. In formal settings, quality of stone and setting usually matters more than size, so a smaller, well cut gem can look more refined than a large dull one.
One of the easiest ways to change the mood of the same outfit is to swap both metal color and gemstone shade while keeping your clothes exactly the same. For example, a white blouse and dark jeans can feel warm and romantic when you pair them with yellow gold earrings set with peachy stones, but the same clothes look cooler and sharper with silver earrings and deep blue gems. Rose gold with blush or lavender stones gives a soft, feminine feel, while blackened silver with dark stones can feel more edgy and modern. By playing with these small changes, you can wear your favorite outfits more often without feeling like you look the same every time. This approach saves money and closet space while still letting you express different sides of your style.
When I travel, I like to pack just a few pairs of gemstone earrings that cover different needs without taking up much space, and a little planning makes this simple. I wrap each pair in a small soft pouch or a piece of cloth and place them in a hard case, so they do not scratch each other or get crushed in my bag. I usually bring one pair of neutral studs for day, one slightly dressier pair for dinners, and one bold statement pair in a favorite color in case a special event comes up. Choosing pieces that all work with your main shoes and handbags helps everything mix and match. This way, you are ready for a walk, a work meeting, and a fancy meal with just a tiny corner of your suitcase.

Metal & Setting Choices: Gold, Silver, and More

The metal around your gemstones makes a big difference in how the color looks, so it is worth understanding how yellow gold, white metals, and rose gold each affect the stone. Yellow gold has a rich, warm glow that deepens warm tones like red, orange, and golden brown, so garnet, citrine, and amber usually look more intense in it. White gold and silver have a cool, bright shine that tends to sharpen blue, purple, and clear stones like sapphire, amethyst, and white topaz, giving them a clean, modern feel. Rose gold has a soft pink tone that flatters many skin tones and adds a romantic touch to neutral stones and pastels like morganite or pale moonstone. When you notice how metal color changes the mood of the stone, you can choose combinations that match the feeling you want your earrings to give.
Gemstone earrings can be set in several common styles, and each one affects both the look and safety of the stone. Prong settings use small metal claws to hold the gem, lifting it up to let in more light, which often makes the stone look extra sparkly, but the edges are a bit more exposed. Bezel settings wrap a smooth band of metal all the way around the stone, which protects it very well and creates a sleek, modern look, though the gem may appear slightly smaller. Halo settings place a circle of tiny stones around a center gem, making the middle stone look larger and adding lots of shine, which is popular for bridal and evening earrings. Understanding these settings helps you pick the right mix of sparkle, safety, and style for your lifestyle.
If you have sensitive ears or skin, it is important to pay attention to metal content, karat numbers, and plating, so your earrings stay comfortable. Many people react to nickel, which is often used in cheaper alloys, so choosing nickel free metals, solid gold, sterling silver, or surgical steel can help avoid irritation. Fourteen karat gold is usually harder and more durable for everyday wear than eighteen karat, which is softer and richer in color but can scratch more easily. Plated jewelry, where a thin layer of gold or rhodium covers a base metal, can be a good budget option but the coating can wear off over time, especially on pieces you wear often. Knowing these basics helps you choose earrings that will last and stay kind to your skin.
I like to match my metal finish to both my other jewelry and my skin tone, because this creates a calm, cohesive look instead of a scattered one. If you mostly wear yellow gold rings or a wedding band, choosing gemstone earrings in yellow gold helps everything blend together, even when the stones are different colors. If your skin looks brighter next to cool tones, silver, white gold, or platinum might be your best base, while warm toned skin often glows next to yellow or rose gold. You can mix metals on purpose, but I usually keep metals matching around my face and then play with mixing on bracelets and rings farther away. This simple rule keeps your outfits looking more thoughtfully put together with very little effort.

Care & Cleaning for Gemstone Earrings

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Most hard gemstones, like sapphire, ruby, and diamond, are easy to clean at home using a gentle method with warm water, mild soap, and a soft brush. I fill a small bowl with warm, not hot, water and a drop of gentle dish soap, then let the earrings soak for a few minutes to loosen any oils or dirt. After soaking, I use a soft toothbrush to lightly brush around the stone and setting, paying attention to the back where lotion and hair spray often collect. Then I rinse the earrings under clean water, pat them dry with a soft cloth, and let them air dry fully before putting them away. Doing this once a month keeps your stones bright and your metal shiny without risking damage.
Some gemstones are more delicate and need extra care, so they should not be cleaned with harsh chemicals, steam, or ultrasonic machines. Stones like opal, turquoise, amber, malachite, and some pearls can be sensitive to strong cleaners, sudden temperature changes, or even too much soaking in water. These gems can crack, lose their shine, or change color if treated roughly, so for them I prefer a very soft damp cloth and a quick gentle wipe. I avoid soaking them for long periods and keep them away from perfumes, hair spray, and harsh household cleaners. When in doubt, I treat a stone as delicate rather than strong, since it is easier to prevent damage than to fix it later.
How you store your gemstone earrings matters almost as much as how you clean them, because scratches and chips usually happen when jewelry pieces rub against each other. I like to place each pair in its own soft pouch or in a jewelry box with small separate compartments, so metal and stones do not knock together. Keeping your earrings in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and high humidity helps protect both the stones and the metal from fading or tarnish. In very humid climates, a small anti moisture packet in your jewelry box can help keep things dry. Taking a few seconds to put your earrings away properly after wearing them will keep them pretty for many more years.
Even with good home care, it is wise to have your gemstone earrings checked by a professional jeweler from time to time, especially if you wear them often. Settings can loosen slowly as you move and handle your jewelry, and you may not notice a tiny prong that is lifting until the stone falls out. A jeweler can look for weak spots, tighten prongs, clean hard to reach areas, and polish the metal so the earrings look fresh again. I try to have my favorite pairs checked once a year or whenever I feel something catching on my hair or clothes. This small habit adds a layer of safety and protects both your investment and your sentimental pieces.

Ethical Sourcing & What to Ask Sellers

Ethical sourcing in gemstones means that the stones were taken from the earth and brought to market in a way that respects people and the environment. This includes fair pay for miners and cutters, safe working conditions, and no use of child labor. It also means that the mining process tries to limit damage to land and water and that companies take some responsibility for restoring the area after mining is done. For me, ethical sourcing is part of loving my neighbor and caring for creation, even when I am “just” buying earrings. When we ask about these issues, we gently push the jewelry industry toward better choices.
When you are shopping for gemstone earrings, it helps to ask the seller a few clear questions about origin, treatments, and certifications. First, ask where the stones come from, not just the country where they were cut, but the country of the mine if possible. Second, ask if the stones have been treated in any way, such as heat treatment, dyeing, or filling, because treatments can affect both value and how you care for them. Third, ask if there are any certificates or third party reports that confirm the type of stone and sometimes the origin, especially for higher priced pieces. A good seller will not be offended by these questions and should be able to answer them in a simple, honest way.
Today many gemstones are available in both mined and lab grown versions, and each option has its own trade offs. Lab grown stones, especially diamonds and some sapphires, are created in controlled environments and have the same basic structure as natural stones, often at a lower price and with less direct impact on land. Mined stones come from the earth and often have unique natural inclusions and character that some people love, but they also carry more concerns about mining practices. Lab grown gems can be a good choice if you want a certain look and size on a smaller budget or if you are very worried about mining harm. Mined gems may appeal more if you value rarity and tradition, but in that case it is even more important to seek ethical sources.
The way we spend money on gemstones sends signals to the market, and over time those signals can help or hurt the communities who live near the mines. When we choose earrings from companies that support fair pay, safe conditions, and land care, we help build demand for better mining and cutting jobs. This can lead to more stable income for families, better schools, and healthier towns, instead of the boom and bust cycles that often follow reckless mining. Ethical choices are not perfect, and we cannot control everything, but they do matter, especially when more of us ask for them. It is a slow but real way to show concern for the people far away who make our beauty possible.
There are also some warning signs you can watch for when shopping, to avoid supporting bad practices or low quality stones. Be careful if a seller is very vague about where their gemstones come from and only says “overseas” or “from different places” without any real detail. Be wary if higher priced pieces come with no paperwork at all and no return policy, or if the seller seems annoyed when you ask basic questions. Very high claims at very low prices, like huge “natural” rubies or emeralds for almost nothing, are also red flags that the stones may be heavily treated or not what they are claimed to be. Trust your instincts, and if a deal or a seller feels wrong, it is fine to walk away and look for something that gives you peace of mind.

Shopping Smart: Budget, Certification & Resale

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When you plan your budget for gemstone earrings, it helps to know where to spend more and where to save, so you get the best value. I like to invest in better color and cut, because these things you can see right away, while I save on very heavy or ornate settings that just add metal weight. A well cut stone with rich, even color will sparkle and look lively, while a poorly cut stone can look dull no matter how large it is. Simple, classic settings usually cost less and put most of the budget into the stone itself, which is what holds most of the long term value. By thinking this way, you can own fewer pieces that you truly love instead of many that never quite look right.
Certificates and grading reports can be very helpful, especially for diamonds, sapphires, rubies, and emeralds, because they give you an outside opinion about what you are buying. These documents may come from trusted labs and can tell you the type of stone, its weight, color grade, clarity, cut quality, and any treatments. For colored gemstones, certificates often focus less on strict grades and more on confirming that the stone is natural or lab grown and sometimes where it came from. Not every affordable pair of earrings will have a certificate, but for bigger purchases it is wise to ask if one is available. Reading the basic parts of a certificate gives you more confidence and makes it easier to compare pieces from different sellers.
If you are thinking about long term value or possible resale, it helps to focus on timeless stones, classic cuts, and quality over short lived trends. Stones like diamonds, sapphires, rubies, and emeralds have held broad appeal across many cultures and generations, and simple cuts like round, oval, and cushion shapes are more likely to stay in style. Earrings in these styles can be passed down or resold more easily than very unusual colors or extreme shapes that may look dated in a few years. Keeping original receipts, certificates, and boxes also helps with future resale. Even if you never plan to sell, buying with this mindset often leads you to choose pieces that you will still enjoy many years from now.

Styling Examples & Lookbook Ideas

You can build quick, easy looks around gemstone earrings without needing a huge closet, just by mixing simple outfits with the right pair. For casual days, I love small gemstone studs with jeans and a clean T shirt, because the color at your ears makes even basic clothes feel more intentional. For the office, a pearl and gemstone combo, like small sapphires with tiny pearls, looks smart and respectful without being dull. For date night, bold drops in a rich color paired with soft, natural makeup put a gentle focus on your eyes and cheekbones. These three simple formulas cover most days in real life and are easy to repeat with different colors.
Layering earrings and necklaces can look very chic if you keep the pieces light and balanced, especially when you mix gemstone studs with a small hoop and a thin chain necklace. If you have more than one piercing, you might wear a tiny colored stud in the front and a small plain hoop behind it, then add a delicate chain with a stone that echoes the color of your studs. The goal is to repeat the color without making it heavy, so the eye flows gently from ear to neck. Even with just one piercing, you can wear a single gemstone stud and pair it with a fine chain necklace that has a matching or neutral stone. This layered but delicate look works well for both casual and slightly dressy outfits.
When I travel or plan a busy week, I like to create a small capsule of just three pairs of gemstone earrings that cover all my outfits. One neutral pair of studs, like white topaz or moonstone, works for daytime, sightseeing, or errands. One slightly larger or more colorful pair works for dinners, church, or work meetings. Finally, one real statement pair, maybe with a bold color or a longer drop, is saved for special events, concerts, or a surprise dressy night. If all three pairs share a similar metal color, they can mix easily with your other jewelry and belts, so you never feel mismatched.
Your hairstyle changes how your earrings show, so it is smart to think about hair when you choose your gemstone pieces. Updos, ponytails, and braids pull hair away from the face and give long drops and chandeliers plenty of space to shine. When you wear your hair down, especially if it is thick or curly, studs and short dangles are less likely to snag and will peek through your hair in a softer way. If your hair color is very close to the stone color, the gem may blend in, so sometimes a contrasting stone will show better. Simply checking your earrings in a mirror from the side with your planned hairstyle can save you from picking a pair that disappears.
Accessories like scarves, sunglasses, and handbags can either fight or support the color of your gemstone earrings, and I like to make them work together. For example, turquoise earrings with a scarf that has a small stripe of turquoise will look thoughtful and stylish, even if the rest of your outfit is plain. Deep red garnet studs can feel even richer when you carry a burgundy bag or wear a lipstick in a similar shade. Sunglasses with warm brown frames often look best with warm stones in yellow gold, while black frames look sharp next to cool stones in silver. You do not need everything to match perfectly, just one or two repeated tones to tie the look together.
I think every woman benefits from having one signature pair of gemstone earrings that feels especially “her,” something she reaches for again and again. This might be a pair that matches your eye color, reminds you of your birthstone, or carries a special memory, like an anniversary or a trip. When you build your style around this pair, you can choose scarves, tops, and lip colors that echo its tones, which makes getting dressed much easier. Over time, people may even start to associate that color or shape with you, in a good way. A signature pair becomes part of your story, not just another item in a drawer.

Gifting, Storage & Final Tips

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Gemstone earrings also make wonderful gifts, and choosing stones by personality can make the present feel even more thoughtful. For a friend or family member with classic, traditional taste, I lean toward timeless stones like pearls with a small diamond or sapphire accent, or simple studs in soft blue or clear stones. For someone playful and artistic, bright and unusual colors like turquoise, citrine, or multi colored tourmaline can reflect her cheerful spirit. If a woman is calm and gentle, she might love the peaceful feel of amethyst or aquamarine, while a bold, confident woman may enjoy deep red garnet or vivid ruby. Thinking about who she is, rather than just what is trendy, helps you choose earrings she will actually wear.
How you present gemstone earrings can make the gift feel extra special, even if the piece itself is small or simple. I like to place the earrings in a pretty but sturdy box or pouch, something she can use later to store them safely. Including a small handwritten care note with a few cleaning and storage tips shows that you thought about helping her keep the gift beautiful for a long time. If the stone has a meaning or a story, you can add a short line about it on a card, such as “amethyst is linked with calm and clarity.” This kind of presentation turns a small pair of earrings into a keepsake.
Before you buy any pair of gemstone earrings, for yourself or as a gift, it helps to run through a quick mental checklist so you feel confident. First, check the color in natural light if you can, to be sure it flatters skin and looks the way you expect. Second, gently touch the setting to see if anything feels loose or catches on fabric, since secure stones are safer and will last longer. Third, ask about origin, treatments, and any certificates or warranties, so you know what you are paying for and how to care for it. When these simple steps are done, you can purchase with peace, knowing your new earrings will brighten many outfits and moments in the years ahead.